Just impulsive and trained in a certain way

If you want to send me this thing you for some reason never want to send to a dude, 

Power by Audre Lorde | Poetry Foundation
https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/53918/power-56d233adafeb3

are you any better than a resentful, resentful, resentful man who simply could not control himself because so angry, needed an outlook, needed someone to be the receptacle.