Remembering entertainment from 20-something hours ago

Madonna's "Don't Tell Me" had male artists (their art was riding and falling off horses and dancing in cowboy costumes) M. Star's "Fade Into You" was her worshipping her own feelings, nothing wrong with that, and S. Mclaughlin's character in "Building A Mystery" was excited by a man's inaccessibility (xy: but was she exited? xx: she wrote a song about it xy: well it could make a person angry xx: no she's not angry, well not really in the song and also wondered, if it was about her husband but they used a much lighter skinned man in the video is that actually more damaging than they knew???) deep stoned thoughts happened because of female musical artists making moving visual media