You know you were trained to

change your last name...

https://www.vogue.com/article/white-women-voters-conservative-trump-gop-problem

"...connected to and surrounded by more conservative white men—fathers, husbands, pastors, uncles, brothers” who they are inclined to vote in tandem with, Payne says. Especially when those same men often “control the clicker”—tuned to Fox News, of course"

~ M. Ruiz

https://www.vogue.com/article/white-women-voters-conservative-trump-gop-problem

"The women we’re talking to aren’t saying, ‘We don’t care about other folks,’” Payne says. On the contrary, some say, “All my husband cares about is how policy connects to him and his wallet.”

~M. Ruiz

https://www.vogue.com/article/white-women-voters-conservative-trump-gop-problem