It has happened

A man has told me I should stop feeling sorry for people.

https://slate.com/business/2018/05/robin-hanson-the-sex-redistribution-professor-interviewed.html

Why do you always do that.

https://theglowup.theroot.com/the-reckoning-what-junot-diaz-teaches-us-about-interna-1825796965

Hmmm.