Ill-fitted for certain egos

She's so nice at first, as long as you don't expect too much of her or her heroes and she gets rewarded by men who don't mind at all if she treats other women badly. This is how you succeed in their environment. 

He's so helpful to you at first, as long as you make excuses for all of his immature behavior and feed him compliments and act like he's the greatest at everything. This is what the other women in this environment do.

If you met them in different circumstances, maybe it would have been better.