I am getting interested in cultural grieving

I feel like I almost can't believe how much a sudden death can shock me.

But in a way, isn't it normal to be super sad, instead of just being kinda sad and then cramming your brain full of the next entertainment as a distraction?

Although sometimes people need those distractions to make the day better or something.

Then there is also disenfranchised grief. Like when you have a grief about something like why don't these people care about grieving and homelessness, or grieving and childlessness, or grieving and veterans with ptsd...