Nice

XX: why do I get very sick like once a year and you never do...I think its because...

XY:  no, I think it's because when I get sick I work hard to tell myself I am not, but you wallow in it.

XX: not fair. Do you think I enjoy (symptoms)

XY: no, I don't think you enjoy it. But I think you wallow. Mind over matter!

Mind over matter.