Qualities to cherish in an individual

Pays attention to your interests.

Example:

Ella: I found this feminist spoken word poem online and I really want to show it to you, you have to watch it!
El: Okay...(watches poem)

(After)
El: So...why did you feel the need to show me that poem?
Ella: Well, as soon as I saw this feminist poem, I just immediately thought I should show it to you. You like to read and write. I thought you liked poetry!
El: Actually...I've never really been a poetry sort of guy.
Ella: But you were the one that introduced me to that one poem!
El: What poem?
Ella: The Rape Joke poem.
El: Oh. I didn't show you that because I'm really into poetry...I showed you that because it was about rape.

See???