Friday, June 30, 2023

And when freedoms are threatened, the supposedly well-off aren't as well-off either.

"They really do want to return to girls being the property of their fathers, to be transferred to being the property of their husbands as soon as they hit puberty."

https://twitter.com/AgentZapdos/status/1674868504825061391?t=leFF8M5W_Pw_Dj0tmupHGw&s=09

"Abortion bans not killing women fast enough."

https://twitter.com/aubreyhirsch/status/1674817339529871364?t=LGZ9ht-zPdQA95OVEbQ0Wg&s=09

"Heads up: The Supreme Court just agreed to take up the issue of whether people accused of domestic violence can own firearms."

https://twitter.com/kylegriffin1/status/1674815162853801984?t=yHCeV6WzdiSCXYmxKgI89Q&s=09

Kinda feels like a good time to appreciate his work.

"Journey of Souls: Case Studies..."

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/104979.Journey_of_Souls

Noticed that no one in his book ever says, "I am so glad I made excuses for those who abuse others for their own short term gains, and I totally want to do that again in the next life," because they all seem to want something a lot better than that!

Saved some rice again.

Nice, unburnt brown rice this time. Got distracted, but whisked it off the burner in the nick of time. Getting good at that!

I used to love fireworks and sparklers as a kid.

When I was about eight and the big 4th of July fireworks were far away, they were so beautiful, and seeing them once a year was so much fun. Well, a few times as a very small kid, the too-loud noises were upsetting and made me afraid or gave me stomachaches. But then I grew older and realized "It's just firecrackers" didn't mean I had to visualize big flaming crackers rolling down hills to destroy civilians. But now I dislike the noises again, and "Scare innocent pets and trigger PTSD in vets" weekend is just not very much fun anymore.

Realized and accomplished some things today!

Needing to help others and needing to accept help from others now! I spent time with a good person who my cat liked more than she usually likes strangers. She has organizational skills, and could help me get started on an important project, and I could give her food and some nice shoes to sell, I hope. Plus, a good feeling tells me that nature has enough love for all of us.

Shouldn't be the thing to do.

I really wish the locals setting off big fireworks nearby didn't get my cat traumatized.

It could happen.

Maybe your country will have a better Supreme Court, one in which every member has integrity and actually wants to do what's best for the citizens of this country, someday.

Thursday, June 29, 2023

I feel grateful again.

Hello...song of the latter part of evening...at almost this end of this remarkable month.

The Wallflowers – "6th Avenue Heartache Lyrics"

https://genius.com/The-wallflowers-6th-avenue-heartache-lyrics

I had the opportunity to go in a better direction, and I found out some people are out there who also want to be on a good healing path. It's not about perfection, or everyone being on exactly the same journey, but it's about going forward on that good healing path, and that's what makes me feel like I am going in a better direction. Oh. I am so glad some people in the world are better at some things. To be put in a place where you feel humility can be a source of joy, and a real gift. Maybe some of us who have experienced really dark times can feel grateful for the new self that can be born. I know there are people who can share their knowledge, and when I need assistance there is help available, and I can learn how to change for the better, and this feels like a blessing.

Ah, so goodness has touched me again.

A little time spent in nature, or sometimes among people who are interested in healing themselves, helps me to know how much I am very in favor of humans getting better and not suffering so much, and I look forward being happier, more often, in a really healthy way.

Park Note

Young girls (preteen) on skateboards are living well.

Was hoping the environment could help with healing the habit of brooding about how narcissistic people can be quite hurtful, and as it turns out, that little activity was interrupted, because the girls whizzed by on their skateboards, and one of them exclaimed,

"Oh no, that little girl is telling on us!"

There was the distant sound of a wailing child.

One of the girls said she felt bad. Whatever happened to upset the little girl, they did not mean for it to have happened. They went back to the playground, and you could hear them calling out:

"Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry!"

Later, looked up again and noticed how an older girl? or a young woman? was very, very gently petting a dog.

At least some WANT it to get better...

"The first time I did this exercise I looked at the blackboard and I thought, 'Oh my God. Why would they give it up?' I then decided to ask the men: Why give it up? They then filled a two-by-two foot space on the blackboard with things like, 'get arrested,' 'divorce,' 'get protection orders taken out against you,' 'adult kids don’t invite you to their weddings,' 'have to go to groups like this.' That was about it."

~ Chuck Derry

"Abusive Men Describe the Benefits of Violence"

https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/

Oh, how very enlightening.

"Abusive Men Describe the Benefits of Violence"

https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/

"There are just too many benefits gained from this behavior."

~ Chuck Derry

I wish they weren't repeating that one again!

When narcissists who act like a few sexist rich people's egos are far more important than the rest of humanity's civil rights flock together.

Sometimes love the moon on a stroll at night.

Everything can start afresh and anew! Laundry has been started. Oh, I missed an event. There  was a sign for a bbq. They were celebrating a friendly cat leaving the complex on Sunday. I would have gone! If only I had known.

What else is new under the moon! People are friends on other planes, lol, & life is so interesting. So why don't we love nature more? I have some good berries. If only I had chocolate and wine, too...what is possible? What will be? Dear moon.

Wednesday, June 28, 2023

Chopping baby corn

Watch "Poor Fat vs. Rich Fat" | Maddie Wiener

https://youtu.be/si_3R3VIwz0

How could their friends help them? Also, please don't drift into academia.

"Staff also complained that Schneider 'enabled his behavior.' Most of the staff’s frustrations seem aimed at Kelly though, as one person claimed he was 'also mean to Sarah.' 'She is in a toxic professional relationship with him,' a production source added." 

~ Kendall Cunningham

They spoke different languages!

Because they're highly educated, the formerly silly sexist women and formerly unwell patriarchal men of a certain industry mime signs of progress by differentiating between the historical figures of Helen Keller and Anne Frank better than most of their peers can in the 2020s.

Not really!

Silly sexist men and unwell patriarchal women in a certain industry do interpretive, creative miming explaining that i'd have to be a predatory guy with lots of money for them to get motivated by my ideas.

I wonder if he saw the Marwencol documentary?

"Cordal warns onlookers of the dangers in blindly following the wills of the rich and powerful. Like miniature clones, the identical statues were created in the likeness of middle-aged, white collar, white men, each desperately clutching a briefcase as they huddle together or drown to death in a mindless mass."

Artist Isaac Cordal’s Incredible Tiny Sculptures Offer a Chilling View of Climate Change

https://inhabitat.com/isaac-cordals-incredible-tiny-sculptures-offer-a-chilling-view-of-climate-change/

Or the sister? Didn't he have one of those?

"It’s like, my dad is Ferris Bueller and she’s the principal who’s always getting mad at Ferris Bueller. She isn’t really funny, but my dad did show me how funny it is to piss her off, and I think she likes being a part of that."

~ Damien Kronfield

"DUDE CORNER: My Dad is the Funniest Guy I Know"

https://reductress.com/post/dude-corner-my-dad-is-the-funniest-guy-i-know/

What if Tomorrow is Different & Much Better?

The Ones Who Succumbed to Being Addicted to An Unwell Patriarchy's Mean, Dehumanizing Ways Weren't Born That Way & They Could Recover Their Humanity.

Them, too.

X & X wouldn't have acted that way about your human rights if the Patriarchal Cultural Standards hadn't really gotten to him & her.

Why not be more respectful of girls and women from a whole variety of backgrounds?

Certain people who still make excuses for abusive patriarchal patterns show that if they hadn't been so affected by An Environment of Unwell Patriarchal Cult Standards that they would have been much more open to that idea.

She had instructions from her soul.

"If you have ever gone to the woods with me, I must love you very much."

~ Mary Oliver

Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Almost bedtime.

🎵"Half the page of the New York Times..." 💖

"Oscar the Grouch Sings The Grouch’s Lullaby"

https://youtu.be/mKapN2s-v6c

Laugh of the Cat Medusa


 Ha! Looks like a yawn.

Maybe Hollywood's gotten more enlightened than Trump's cabinet since 2021.

"An Open Letter From the Women Leaders of the Coalition of Immokalee Workers to Hollywood’s Time’s Up Movement"

https://www.thenation.com/article/archive/an-open-letter-from-the-women-leaders-of-the-coalition-of-immokalee-workers-to-hollywoods-times-up-movement/

"How Geena Davis Continues to Tackle Gender Bias..."

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/25/business/geena-davis-hollywood-sexism-gender.html

God does not make excuses for hurtful, sexist, exclusionary behaviors.

That's what some people in the Patriarchal Cults / Cultures on Earth got trained to do just to fit in with "certain ingroups." And apparently, at some point, it was more than tolerable for them to just go along with the others in doing that.

Holy cat 😸

Someone strongly suspects that God doesn't think rich dudes and their acolytes are more important than all the others, even if some segments of patriarchal society are still leaning that way in the 2020s...one might even say God is probably far less patriarchal than they are...Mrrrow!

Society is EVOLVING...

"Bailey (above) and Dugard together have created an innovative model that utilizes horses to help educate judges, police officers, therapists, and other professionals about compassion, kindness, and connection."

"Abduction Survivor Jaycee Dugard appears at Sonoma Speaker Series"

https://sonomasun.com/2022/09/22/abduction-survivor-jaycee-dugard-appears-at-sonoma-speaker-series/

Who Knows What's "Normal" in the Future?

"In adulthood, to overcome her phobia of uniforms and to work with horses, Barbro served as a mounted police woman for the Swedish national police force."

http://pointintimetherapy.com/the-reincarnation-case-of-anne-frank-barbre-karlen/

Ready to lose those patriarchal cult behaviors yet?

"Both Nancy and Phillip Garrido claimed to have strong religious ties, with Phillip Garrido saying he made a device that allowed him to speak to the holy spirit. Stewart said fundamentalist religions that are strongly patriarchal call for men acting as the leaders, while women are secondary.

'According to some of these religions, God only really speaks to men,' Stewart said. 'The notion is that men are next to God and are doing God's service and have his words. From the fundamentalist perspective, women have to gain their access to religion with their affiliations with men.'"

~ Jaclyn O'Malley

"Was Nancy Garrido a victim or accomplice?"

https://www.rgj.com/story/news/2014/04/06/was-nancy-garrido-a-victim-or-accomplice/7183137/

I ask this universe for help with healing this body again

Oh my goodness. We need to get better at things like that...I would love to get better at it. What a work in progress this is.

As a matter fact, that relaxed some tense areas...

This body hopes you and your friends learn how to become more expanded versions of yourselves.

Help us to know how to heal...

What if it feels like the body physically aches due to feeling upset about the groupthink and insensitive choices of people you thought would have known better? It's an opportunity to heal... isn't it...dear body, they are being that way due to their own pain.

What a time...

I just have to believe that I can get through a challenging time and pay more attention to the helpful ones and the blessings and thank the universe for it kindnesses. It was a difficult time, and still I need to transition into new ways of being, and find where I can become more healed.

Monday, June 26, 2023

Gosh, why is this good tonight? I usually avoid it.

"Trader Joe's Organic Mango & Chile Black Tea Review"

https://www.traderjoesreviews.com/product/trader-joes-organic-mango-chile-black-tea-reviews/

This question makes my stomach feel better!

What if those "despotic patriarchal people seem to need many kinds of wing-persons to go along with the inherited patterns" vibes got changed to something really refreshingly different?

You ever notice how some industries feel more oppressively authoritarian?

It said Trump's cabinet was more diverse than all the people making big decisions in 2021 in Hollywood, somewhere in this now pay-walled article.

"How Geena Davis Continues to Tackle Gender Bias..."

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/25/business/geena-davis-hollywood-sexism-gender.html

Fortunately, she survived Uncle Jack's driving, too.

"'Hollywood creates our cultural narrative — its biases trickle down to the rest of the world,' she said in 'This Changes Everything,' the 2018 documentary she produced about gender inequity in the film industry. The documentary takes its name from the incessant refrain she kept hearing after the success of 'Thelma & Louise,' and later 'A League of Their Own.' Finally the power and profitability of female-centric movies had been proven — this changes everything! And then, year after year, nothing."

~ Chris Colin

"How Geena Davis Continues to Tackle Gender Bias..."

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/25/business/geena-davis-hollywood-sexism-gender.html

I hope humanity's increased sensitivity to human rights can improve quality of life, even at the end of a life.

"Yad Vashem honored Ella Lingens-Reiner and Kurt Lingens with the Medal of Honor Righteous Among the Nations in Jerusalem in 1980.[1] Ella Lingens-Reiner died on December 30, 2002, in Vienna.[3] Her son Peter Michael Lingens later reported:

'A few days before she died, my mother got out of bed again. She leaned on the walls of the room and the long corridor and suddenly stood in the living room door, obviously a bit confused. While each conversation fell silent, she repeated a single sentence, her eyes wide in fear: You won't burn me? You won't burn me, will you?'"

Ella Lingens-Reiner - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ella_Lingens


How sensibly sensitive!

"Citing religious freedom and state rights, everyday American Jews are among those leading the battle against the conservative assault on abortion."

~ Etan Nechin

https://www.haaretz.com/us-news/2023-06-26/ty-article-magazine/.premium/we-wont-back-down-the-u-s-jewish-activists-taking-on-the-antiabortion-movement/00000188-f7d3-d6ce-abb9-f7f783210000

Sorry to hear of his illness!

"Doctor Who Blamed Feminism for Rising Incidence of Rape Wins Prestigious Tikvah Fund Prize"

https://www.haaretz.com/israel-news/2023-06-26/ty-article/.premium/doctor-who-blamed-feminism-for-rising-incidence-of-rape-wins-prestigious-tikvah-fund-prize/00000188-f79b-d6ce-abb9-f7ffe9040000

So many sad questions & observations.

"How could they integrate? Nobody ever wanted them" (105).

~ Francine Christophe 

"From a world apart : a little girl in the concentration camps"

https://archive.org/details/fromworldapartli0000chri

What a life. Well, one can always try again, anyway!

Some people are so unbelievably attached to their "Still stubbornly not hearing what you're saying" habits. And in the long run, it's not even good for them, either. "Geez, if you would actually just think of yourselves, for a change."

Otherwise, see you in the next life.  

Well, I found another book to read.

"From a World Apart: A Little Girl..."

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/256273.From_a_World_Apart

"From a world apart : a little girl in the concentration camps"

By Francine Christophe

https://archive.org/details/fromworldapartli0000chri

Even more details about the terrible experience at Bergen Belsen than in Hannah Pick Goslar's memoir. Unreal.

Why do they not want good change to happen much more quickly?

People who are capable of more but whose choices keep indicating that they're still  addicted to the old ways of infrahumanization and sexist practices and unethical standards are dealing with their own pain.

Sunday, June 25, 2023

Better late than never...

Beheld 

the Beauty

Helpful today.

Figure 8s on a sad little hurting big toe.

https://www.pruneharris.com/post/the-fabulous-figure-8

Plus the gifts of a plant cutting and a book by an author I've yet to read.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/81939.The_Mastery_of_Love

Change is natural.

"My daughter asked me, 'Mama, if you deportees had had psychologists or psychiatrists when you returned, maybe it would have been easier for you. I replied, 'Undoubtedly, but we didn't have them. No one thought of mental illness. But you gave me a good idea. We'll have a lecture on that topic."

~ Francine Christophe

"Francine's interview - FRANCE - #HUMAN"

https://youtu.be/gXGfngjmwLA

~~~~~

"Many did not even speak to friends or family about what they had been through. Or at least, that was my experience in Israel. The underlying attitude in Israel in those years was tainted with the shameful feeling that Jews had gone like 'sheep to their slaughter'. We didn't understand trauma much then, or how to talk about things..."

~ Hannah Pick Goslar, pages 291- 292, My Friend Anne Frank

~~~~~

"The Anne Frank Diary Opera"

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063919180582

Couldn't go on forever.

"Jacque was in the new school. Though what she told me I found hard to believe: her new schoolmates did not talk about what was happening to the city's Jews -- not the anti-Jewish measures, not the deportations. It was as if we were living in two entirely different worlds. And it was strange to think that with a stroke of a bureaucrat's pen, Jacqueline could take part in all that was forbidden to Ilse and me and our other friends. She could ride a bike again, use a phone in her house, travel by tram and train, not be singled out as inferior with the big mustard-colored star. I found her transition to 'the other side' to be mind-bending. Her uncle and first cousins were deported, but she no longer had to worry that she might be. It was like she inhabited a parallel world. But she was still tied to ours."

~ Hannah Pick Goslar, My Friend Anne Frank, page 114

Lordy, Lordy, Lordy.

"Historically, patrilineality meant that, upon marriage, rights over a woman’s body were transferred from father to groom."

~ Kristen R. Ghodsee

https://jacobin.com/2023/06/patriarchy-traditional-multigenerational-wealth-privilege-feminism

"Whether it is in academia, in the military, or within the corporate world, women are more likely to follow their partners to a new city or country."

~ Kristen R. Ghodsee

https://jacobin.com/2023/06/patriarchy-traditional-multigenerational-wealth-privilege-feminism

"Of course, patriarchy works in tandem with capitalism as a tool for embedding structural forms of discrimination in our economies and societies, but if we are serious about challenging both systems, it is essential that we begin to target the underlying practices that uphold them both. Both patrilineality and patrilocality allow the nuclear family to become the core institution in capitalist societies that facilitates the intergenerational transfer of wealth and privilege. Radical changes to the way we organize our own domestic arrangements can profoundly disrupt the persistence of these traditions. It turns out that humanity has over two thousand years’ worth of cross-cultural experiments to help us imagine what these radical changes might look like in practice, and how we might implement them in our daily lives."

~ Kristen R. Ghodsee

In THIS life...

"What are you, like a, lesbian misogynist..."

Watch "“I Was Raised by a Pack of Lesbians” - Jordan Jensen

https://youtu.be/8I1bapOz04c


I Guess Abrahamic Religions are to Blame: a Sunday Sermon!

 "Appeals to human nature always contain within them specific worldviews that help justify certain political and economic arrangements."

~ Kristen R. Ghodsee

"Gender Oppression Isn’t Inherent to Human Nature"

https://jacobin.com/2023/06/sexism-patriarchy-gender-history-archeology-feminism

In the 1980s, moms gossiped about others, too.

Kim Wilde - "You Keep Me Hanging On (1986)" • TopPop

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHdCX5Xe6m4

What???? Siiiigh.

Scapegoating is Unwell Behavior. For example, when a girl scout leader mom wrongly accused a single mom of stealing the cookie money..."I know you did it." No, she did not know that. Because it didn't happen. I wonder who did steal it, though. What if it was your own daughter? I thought of asking her.

A tree read.

Finding the Mother Tree by Suzanne Simard

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2021/may/08/finding-the-mother-tree-by-suzanne-simard-review-a-journey-of-passion-and-introspection

Isn't life still such a mystery, though?

It could all change. There are just so many different paths to take on this planet. I could still just become a quiet person who is all about living amongst the trees. That could be a good life, actually. Why not, eh?

Saturday, June 24, 2023

Maybe Ask, How Could The Brocialist Manarchists Ever Feed All Of Them?

 "Girls become obsessed with beauty and sweetness, thinness and grace, or whatever particular constellation of characteristics that their societies deem desirable."

~ Kristen R. Ghodsee

"Gender Oppression Isn’t Inherent to Human Nature"

https://jacobin.com/2023/06/sexism-patriarchy-gender-history-archeology-feminism

A few changes of scenery!





I didn't see it happen, but I was told that when a ball hit a player, they joked, "This is a man's game!"

Caturday Cattyday Kitty

"And not least of all – probably most of all, if I’m being honest – there was a cat." ~ Guy Lodge

"Breakfast at Tiffany's at 60: the Sharp Romcom..."

https://.theguardian.com/film/2021/oct/05/breakfast-at-tiffanys-at-60-the-sharp-romcom-that-grows-darker-with-age

Watch "Deep Blue Something - Breakfast At Tiffany's"

https://youtu.be/1ClCpfeIELw

"For 60 Years..."

https://www.indiependent.co.uk/breakfast-at-tiffanys-misunderstanding/

"Why Audrey Hepburn Refused..."

https://people.com/movies/why-audrey-hepburn-refused-play-anne-frank/

"Otto wanted Audrey Hepburn for the part of Anne...In 1947, she read Het Achterhuis: 'It destroyed me. There were floods of tears. I become hysterical.' Hepburn was one of the first visitors to the building on Prinsengracht. When director George Stevens sent her the book asking her to audition for the role of Anne, she read it again 'and had to go to bed for the day.'"

Pages 267 - 268 of The Hidden Life of Otto Frank by Carol Ann Lee.

Too Silly! Fine Caturday Morning...

"Lyrics for I'm Too Sexy by Right Said Fred"

https://www.songfacts.com/lyrics/right-said-fred/im-too-sexy

"Joop van Wijk-Voskuijl
@joopvanwijkvoskuijl is ambassador @canalcatwalk and the @royalfashionweek | @floatingfashionweek: world's first Fashion Week on the water."
www.bepvoskuijl.nl

"My Mother, Who Hid Anne Frank, Never Could Escape..."

https://www.vogue.com/article/the-last-secret-of-the-secret-annex-essay

X is READY to CHANGE for the BETTER!

"Sexism helps keep the exploited ones scared to talk about their experiences so that they 'know their place' in the patriarchal pecking order, and that's clearly not gonna be healthy or sustainable in the long run."

At 6 o'clock

X decided that he no longer needed to act like he was SO uncaring just to fit in with the unwell ones who had the most materialistic resources.

It was a peaceful spot

To tune in to the frequency of Friday's internal radio station...

They had such fun with the models' eye makeup.

The Supremes ~ "You Keep Me Hangin' On (HQ Audio)"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oZkGaAqK-Nk

"A stereo edit of what was still The Supremes performing You Keep Me Hangin' On, from a Spanish TV show in 1967.  The girls were miming on the night and sharp eyed viewers will notice that Diana mimes the wrong word at 24 seconds.  She mimes you don't really WANT me, instead of you don't really NEED me."

Friday, June 23, 2023

Maybe it's because of that feeling...

That a lot of people are still needing to be healed more from their traumas, including many of the ones who managed to succeed in navigating some of the patriarchal systems. 

Who knows why a song gets stuck in your head sometimes...

 "Set me free..."

https://genius.com/The-supremes-you-keep-me-hangin-on-lyrics

Thursday, June 22, 2023

Well, that did it.

Now it is time to be in the calming present. Maybe will be putting a book away for the remainder of this evening.

Hello, Uncle Walter.

"Who was Anne Frank's gay Uncle Walter?" | The Times

https://www.timesofisrael.com/who-was-anne-franks-gay-uncle-walter/

"We were up to our usual giggling and gossip until suddenly, as we entered Iet's apartment, Anne lowered her voice to tell us, 'Something terrible has happened to my Uncle Walter.'"

~ Pick-Goslar, page 38 - 39, My Friend Anne Frank

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62874040-my-friend-anne-frank

Lightening the mood...

 "...father pranked Mr. and Mrs. Frank. Wearing a small black moustache, his hair combed to one side, he rang their doorbell. I watched from the bottom of the steps as they opened the door, momentarily confused and a little concerned by this strange man who looked like Hitler giving them such a menacing glare. 'Hans?' they ventured, and we all burst out laughing."

~ Pick-Goslar, page 43 of My Friend Anne Frank

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62874040-my-friend-anne-frank

Another book this June.

Had no plans to read it so soon, but...

My Friend Anne Frank by Hannah Pick-Goslar

Went into the library and just by chance, there it was, sitting on the new arrivals shelf...

I suppose this interest in a certain time period could be another indication that parts of me decided they were ready to address certain kinds of fears?

It's gotten in my head now, so I think I will

Watch "Romain Garcia - Windblows" on YouTube

https://youtu.be/K-OzKebiA0A



Upon further exploration, another childhood friend is still alive...

"Anne’s story consumes a small percentage of the pages here; it’s sandwiched between two long passages about the author’s French Catholic mother and Dutch Jewish father. The van Maarsens escaped deportation and murder only because of the mother’s Aryan status: She pulled strings to cancel the children’s registration as Jews, and her husband was permitted to remove his yellow star upon providing a (false) affidavit that he’d been sterilized. None of them knew the fate of the Franks until Otto returned after the war; it was not long thereafter that he and the author learned of his two daughters’ deaths at Bergen-Belsen.

Anne Frank enthusiasts will wish for more about her, but van Maarsen offers valuable testimony about the particular tensions and horrors her own family endured."

~ Robert Greene

"MY NAME IS ANNE, SHE SAID"

https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/jacqueline-van-maarsen/my-name-is-anne-she-said-anne-frank/

I haven't read that one yet. But I read some of Inheriting Anne Frank by Jacqueline van Maarsen, and it's clear that she and the other surviving childhood friends didn't always see eye to eye, in regards to their friend's legacy, by any stretch of the imagination.

While looking up Otto Frank yesterday, I was perhaps naively surprised to know that this Rabbi believes:

'To condemn Otto Frank is painful but necessary."

~ Eli Kavon

"Otto Frank and Anne’s Jewish legacy - opinion"
https://www.jpost.com/opinion/article-747143

He just decided that's how it is. Really. Well, when has that happened before!

I just felt it was a real pity that he decided to have such a narrow-minded reaction to what one person (in this case, Anne Frank's father) had gone through. 

Change is still possible! That's why

Those with a particular calling can also say that they can have confidence in their abilities to do SO MUCH BETTER than "a Mediocre White Man" has done in the past.

"The First-Term Washington State Senator Who Prays for the Confidence of a Mediocre White Man"

https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a45488/rebecca-saldana-interview-washington-state/

Considering the possibilities.

"Where did that dad learn how to be a wife to a 21st century form of fascism?"

Sadly, these patriarchal ideals still sound all too familiar.

"Most of all, she was a prodigious mother"

~ James Wyllie

"What We Can Learn About Nazi Psychology From the Wives of Hitler’s Top Officials"

https://time.com/5910807/nazi-wives/

"It’s hard to assess how Gerda felt about such degrading treatment. She’d didn’t fight back. She didn’t seek help. She didn’t confide in anybody. Based on her Nazi ideology, Gerda believed it was her duty to obey her husband, and there’s every indication that she was truly devoted to Bormann. As far as her children were concerned, Gerda happily played with them, sang songs, drew pictures and read stories: it was their father’s job to discipline and punish them."

~ Jane Wyllie

"Just joking," eh?

"Sociologists have tried valiantly to break the stranglehold the 'just joking' argument has on our discourse. Study after study shows what common sense should tell us, which is that men who tell rape 'jokes' or otherwise express hostile views towards women are also more likely to beat and rape women. Worse, when men hear other men expressing misogynist beliefs, their proclivity to commit rape rises."

~ Amanda Marcotte

"Andrew Tate was never 'just trolling'" | Salon.com

https://www.salon.com/2023/06/22/andrew-tates-latest-abuse-charges-prove-it-online-misogyny-was-never-just-trolling/

But it's so human to be tempted to subscribe to groupthink, unfortunately.

"As sociologist Mairead Moloney told Education Week, it's 'really seductive' for boys to listen to 'a worldview that puts you at the very center of the world and, in essence, makes all other groups beholden to you.'"

~ Amanda Marcotte

"Andrew Tate was never 'just trolling'" | Salon.com

https://www.salon.com/2023/06/22/andrew-tates-latest-abuse-charges-prove-it-online-misogyny-was-never-just-trolling/

Well, at least not everyone subscribes to the groupthink.

"It's a persistent bit of wishful thinking in our culture, that misogynist talk somehow has no relationship to actual violence against women."

~ Amanda Marcotte

"Andrew Tate was never 'just trolling'" 

https://www.salon.com/2023/06/22/andrew-tates-latest-abuse-charges-prove-it-online-misogyny-was-never-just-trolling/


Patriarchy wants people to be this pathetic?

"Bad Man-Off! Andrew Tate Offers to Train Elon Musk for Cage Fight With Mark Zuckerberg"

https://jezebel.com/bad-man-off-andrew-tate-offers-to-train-elon-musk-for-1850565188


This book is new...might be the next one to read...

"Anne Frank’s Childhood Friend Recalls Their Years Before the Holocaust"

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/anne-frank-childhood-friend-recall-years-before-holocaust-180982113/


For this reader, the most illuminating one so far is still...

The Last Secret of the Secret Annex: The Untold Story of Anne Frank, Her Silent Protector, and Family Betrayal

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/62918585

Library books have helped me to know more.

The absolute hell this man went through...

The Hidden Life of Otto Frank by Carol Ann Lee

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/144936.The_Hidden_Life_of_Otto_Frank

Wednesday, June 21, 2023

Since children who can legally pick food for $ in '23 are not eligible for WIC...

"Food insecurity is tied to many complex issues—including the high and rising cost of living in California"

~ Paulette Cha

https://www.ppic.org/blog/californias-farmworkers-and-their-children-are-vulnerable-to-food-insecurity/

"Many farmworkers—about 90% of whom are immigrants—are not eligible for CalFresh (California’s version of SNAP), which provides debit cards for buying food. The California Food Assistance Program (CFAP) provides equivalent benefits for documented immigrants who do not meet CalFresh’s requirement of five years of permanent residency or US citizenship. Unlike CalFresh/CFAP, the Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) does not tie eligibility to immigration status. But WIC is a more limited nutrition program, serving pregnant or postpartum individuals, infants, and children under the age of 5."

~ Paulette Cha

https://www.ppic.org/blog/californias-farmworkers-and-their-children-are-vulnerable-to-food-insecurity/

Why not call it WISC? Or change...

Esther, the woman in the photo with the unknown or forgotten last name

"Present on both occasions was an attractive young Jewish woman named Esther, who was then working for Otto as a secretary. He later had to dismiss her under new laws regarding Jews in employment. Miep remembers:

'That's the way things were. She did not come back, I think. She did not survive the war. . . . She was the only one in the office who was Jewish. She said good -bye, and we wished her the best. She stayed in Amsterdam, but could not find work anywhere else. . . . It was all so painful, you see. You heard about her dismissal [from other jobs] but did not talk about it further. You did not know what was going to happen. You gave in to that. Had to accept it. The Germans were the boss and you were scared--frightened to death."

Page 84 of Carol Ann Lee's The Hidden Life of Otto Frank

~~~~~~

"Some of Otto Frank's employees in 1941. From left to right: Victor Kugler, Esther, Bep Voskuijl, Pine Wuurman and Miep Gies. Esther's last name is unknown. In 1942 Esther and Pine no longer work for Opekta. Photo collection: Anne Frank Stichting, Amsterdam"

https://www.annefrank.org/en/anne-frank/main-characters/miep-gies/

Eighty years ago...

"Margot's friend Laureen Nussbaum recalls:

It was agony. Some of my friends wanted to go when the call-up came because they did not expect anything too bad, but their parents begged them to stay and hide, while the parents of other friends made them obey the call-up in order to save the rest of the family."

Page 96 of Carol Ann Lee's The Hidden Life of Otto Frank

"Most damaging of all was the Dutch bureaucracy...There were never more than 200 German policemen operating in Amsterdam, but occupying forces were able to perform their duties without wide- scale interference...the newspaper Vrij Nederland admitted: 'Unnoticed, the poison of propaganda has affected us, and its after-effects will be felt for a long time, especially in our children, who have been used to it and do not know any better. For them, being a Jew means being a constant exception.'"

Page 94 of Carol Ann Lee's The Hidden Life of Otto Frank

"In preparation for the deportations from the Netherlands, the German administration had taken over Westerbork refugee camp, surrounding it with barbed wire and installing armed SS men throughout...In return for exemption from the transports, a number of German Jews remained in charge of the actual administration."

Page 92 of Carol Ann Lee's The Hidden Life of Otto Frank

"Otto also employed two men who were members of the NSB. Miep recalls a conversation she had with Otto about one of them, a sales rep named Daatselaar: 'Mr. Frank had been aware of his membership in the Dutch Nazi Party before he'd gone into hiding because the man wore an NSB pin on his lapel. I remembered that Mr. Frank had commented, 'This man you can trust. I know he's not a Nazi at heart. He must have joined the NSB because he was hanging around with a bunch of young men who joined. Being a bachelor and needing a social life, that's why he joined too.'"

Page 84 -85 of Carol Ann Lee's The Hidden Life of Otto Frank

Perhaps watching this video and such will make more sense.

"Women bringing Nevada lawsuit against Cosby explain new law that helps sexual abuse survivors"

https://www.nbcnews.com/now/video/women-bringing-nevada-lawsuit-against-cosby-explain-new-law-that-helps-sexual-abuse-survivors-182477893982

"Bill Cosby sued by nine more women in Nevada over sexual assault allegations" 

Why is it necessary to ask why...

"One in four young men agree with Andrew Tate’s views on women, poll finds"

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/andrew-tate-women-masculinity-romania-b2342084.html

"Romanian prosecutors indicted Andrew Tate, his brother Tristan and two other suspects on Tuesday on charges that include human trafficking, rape and forming a criminal gang to sexually exploit women."

https://twitter.com/christinespad/status/1671480566946881537?t=nOGaI4aA30ca22wIlXZGXQ&s=09

"Here. Some reading material."

https://www.thecut.com/2015/07/bill-cosbys-accusers-speak-out.html

https://twitter.com/christinespad/status/1410341237492682755?t=C6dyHm1iWR1_CJ80suBRkA&s=09


On a break from...

"People who got trained to dehumanize you in exchange for a few rewards from patriarchal sources, along with some other self-absorbed followers of patriarchal norms, who likewise got addicted to being far more degrading in their treatment of others than was actually healthy for them."

Many betrayals, many lessons?

The lessons can feel very rough when some people end up being more patriarchal and petty than you would have thought necessary (perhaps they just reacted that way based on the programming they got from their own upbringings?) when you used to believe that they were absolutely capable of being a whole lot better than that.

Consider changing for the better before the climate changes even more?

"California’s Farmworkers and Their Children Are Vulnerable To Food Insecurity"

https://www.ppic.org/blog/californias-farmworkers-and-their-children-are-vulnerable-to-food-insecurity/


Maybe they'll heal before this life ends.

When some habitually act like they feel entitled to treat so many girls and women with so much less respect just because of the programming they received from a patriarchal society, it really hurts.

Tuesday, June 20, 2023

Perhaps tomorrow can be better!

I think there are people who got into certain defense mechanisms and survival modes, and they used some of their jokes and creative energy to oppress and control instead of open up and explore, and it's getting old.

"Normal" now might not seem so "normal" in the not too distant future...

"X's behaviors were idiosyncratic to the social conventions of the time."

Also nice to notice.

Now I can enjoy the sight of a train passing, and I have traveled on them for fun. But did I pick up on other energy when I was younger? I seem to recall that when I was small, I had a bad stomachache in a train station, and feared that something horrible was in store, and then I got such relief when some adults communicated that this was truly meant to be a fun train ride and good experience, not a bad one.

I am grateful some things have passed.

I've had experiences, which, on a surface level, look like they were more about others' lives...it seems I will never be able to explain how saturated I become, for example, in all kinds of feelings about fears of persecution...I would go to bed and wake up with thoughts about the Nazi occupation of Europe in my head, and yet, now that some of that has passed, maybe it was helpful on some level, so I'd know why I feel more upset than others about certain kinds of insensitive behaviors...I can almost believe it will not have as much of a hold on me ever again in the future. It's like a long buried fear which I carried and have recently been able to face and to process more completely.

This is what standing up to the system looks like sometimes.

"Recently, when her mother was poised to take her youngest sister into the fields, Gaspar put her foot down. 'I said ‘No, not if I have any say in it,' she recalled. Gaspar took the night shift at a warehouse so she could care for her sister during the day when her mom was at work. But she said it shouldn’t be up to individuals like her to protect farmworking youth. 'As much as I understood why my parents did what they did, I really wish someone could have advocated for me the way I did for my little sister,' Gaspar said." 

~ Leanna First-Arai

"'Every day was a bad day’: Children working in agriculture aren’t protected equally"

Since everyday should not be a bad day...

Instead of once again getting thrown off by some who still seem to feel the need to conform to patriarchal standards in exchange for rewards from very punitive systems, how about meeting more people who feel they can act like they really would like for all kinds of human beings to be able to enjoy their lives?

Well, every day should not be a bad day.

"'Every day was a bad day’: Children working in agriculture aren’t protected equally"

https://youthtoday.org/2022/10/youth-agricultural-workers-arent-protected-equally-under-u-s-labor-law/


What do you think motivates humans to get more "conscious" about infrahumanizing?

"The belief that the outgroup is less human than the ingroup is seldom consciously endorsed by individuals and instead is reflected in the way people tacitly think about the outgroup."

"Infrahumanisation" - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infrahumanisation#:~:text=Infrahumanisation%20(or%20infrahumanization)%20is%20the,outgroup%2C%20which%20is%20less%20human

Are you prepared to pay for your grandchildren's IVF? Not at the moment, not really.

"Almost three decades later, women's health and fertility are still largely unexplored in TV and movies."

~ Blake Turck

"We focused on the wrong feminist..."

https://www.salon.com/2023/06/20/and-just-like-that-and-the-city-charlotte/

What's your line? Oh, it's just a line.

"Well, I'm sure we could be friends if you'd occasionally wipe those  'We've built SO many cages to imprison girls and women!' smirks off of your faces, lol!"

Glad to get to live with a nice man in this life...

Who is presently making hash browns!

Turned off the timer.

"That means it's time to turn them over."

"Okay, I'll let you turn them over. This is your cooking show!"

I see his Wikipedia entry makes no mention of his gross sexism.

Democratic Senator Heflin:

"I've got to determine what your motivation might be. Are you a scorned woman? Do you have a militant attitude relevant to the area of civil rights? Do you have a martyr complex? The issue of fantasy has arisen. Are you interested in writing a book?" (2:10 - 2:30).

"Watch The Most Outrageous Questions Senators Asked Anita Hill in 1991"

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4oPnd911FcM

Blah blah blah. But he's probably reincarnated by now...

"Howell Heflin" - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Howell_Heflin


"Are you a scorned woman?" No wonder this was so depressing

"Watch The Most Outrageous Questions Senators Asked Anita Hill in 1991"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4oPnd911FcM

"Scorned woman" question at 2:12 or thereabouts.

A long time ago, too.

"Anita Hill: America 'has lost confidence in the Supreme Court'"

https://www.cnn.com/videos/us/2023/06/19/exp-juneteenth-anita-hill-amanpour-intw-061901pseg2-cnn-us.cnn

Goodness, how old was the president of Students for Life when all that happened?

"11 years ago I edited a story about a congressman's insistence that a woman's body would shut down a 'legitimate rape' to prevent a pregnancy, a story that came to define the 2012 election. But here we are!"

Sara Libby on Twitter:

https://twitter.com/SaraLibby/status/1671174175187402754

"The president of Students for Life says we don't have to worry about abortion bans without rape exceptions because being sexually assaulted 'actually helps prevent a lot of pregnancies because of your body’s natural response.'”

https://twitter.com/JessicaValenti/status/1670855331671359488

Want to think about which dishes the richest dads enjoyed in the 2020s?

and / or

“'Dear sisters,' the letter began. 'Even though we work in very different environments, we share a common experience...'"

Mily Treviño-Sauceda and Mónica Ramírez and others quoted by Héctor Tobar

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/innovation/times-upinitiative-built-upon-work-labor-activists-180970720/

Is it really SO hard to CHANGE?

"AROUND 90 PERCENT OF MEN AND 87 PERCENT OF WOMEN HOLD INTERNAL BIASES AGAINST WOMEN—ROUGHLY THE SAME NUMBERS AS A DECADE AGO."

https://feature.undp.org/gender-inequality-2023/

"Gender discrimination doesn’t just harm women."

 "Men make the laws, lead the vast majority of governments, and run the biggest companies."

https://feature.undp.org/gender-inequality-2023/



"This hurts everybody."

"Gender (In)equality"| UNDP

https://feature.undp.org/gender-inequality-2023/

While I cannot think about this sort of thing all the time...

"The president of Students for Life says we don't have to worry about abortion bans without rape exceptions because being sexually assaulted 'actually helps prevent a lot of pregnancies because of your body’s natural response.'”

https://jessica.substack.com/p/students-for-life-president-kristan

https://twitter.com/JessicaValenti/status/1670855331671359488

I feel I must take some notice.

I really do think that patriarchal culture's ways are very bad for our collective human health.

Imagine that you just enjoyed a peach.

And then for some reason, you wanted to see the top results for fruit...

"Irish fruit and veg shortage: 'There isn't supply..."

https://www.newstalk.com/news/irish-fruit-and-veg-shortage-there-isnt-supply-there-in-europe-1476842

"Irish shoppers warned of shortage of fruit and vegetables"

https://www.breakingnews.ie/ireland/irish-shoppers-warned-of-shortage-of-fruit-and-vegetables-1491557.html

"Irish fruit and veg shortage warning..."

https://www.independent.ie/farming/news/irish-fruit-and-veg-shortage-warning-as-drought-affects-growers/a751392466.html

Voice: Could be an interesting time for a remake of "A Tree Grows..."

"Francie wonders how women can be so cruel to one another."

"A Tree Grows in Brooklyn Chapter 30–33 Summary"

https://www.sparknotes.com/lit/brooklyn/section11/

(The book is better, of course.)

"Francie will always remember"

"A Tree Grows in Brooklyn - Chapter 30"

https://www.shmoop.com/study-guides/literature/a-tree-grows-in-brooklyn/summary/chapter-30

When you read it in your head, how does this sound?

"It's not just because the women were mothers, though that's part of it. It's that men gravitated toward the committees where they could raise money. It was about power. The men loved taxes, infrastructure, the appropriations committee. They loved the appropriations committee. I spent my time on the health and human services committee. That was better."

~ Rep. Lois Frankel as told to Mattie Kahn

"Lois Frankel Interview - How Motherhood Inspired..."

https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a45364/rep-lois-frankel-why-i-ran/

Learned about her experiences AFTER

"The First-Term Washington State Senator Who Prays for the Confidence of a Mediocre White Man"

https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a45488/rebecca-saldana-interview-washington-state/

Said a head voice: That actually sounds very educational, too, in its own way...

"Ruiz, who grew up in the farm worker community of Coachella, California — both of his parents were farm workers — said he saw a lot of his peers drop out of school to work on farms to earn income for their families. Growing up he heard stories of workers hiding from inspectors and women and young girls sexually harassed.

“That’s why it’s so important that we bring parity in the protections for children in order to stop the cycle of poverty, to increase their probability of finishing school, and also to provide protections to prohibit exposure to pesticides, harassment, and abuse in the fields as children,” Ruiz said."

~ Kenny Torrella

"Child labor on farms is legal and common"

https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2023/6/16/23762593/child-labor-laws-republicans-agriculture-farm-care-act



How could I ever watch anything good 🍊🌎🍞 if I didn't get my most basic nutritional needs met?

"Aguilar’s first summer of employment was technically illegal — though hardly unusual in agriculture — but once she turned 12, it was perfectly legal for her to work long, grueling hours under a scorching sun, even though her peers would have to wait until they were 14 to work in nearly any non-agricultural job."

~ Kenny Torella

"Child labor on farms is legal and common"

https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2023/6/16/23762593/child-labor-laws-republicans-agriculture-farm-care-act

🍞🌎🍊

"'I want to thank every Amazon employee and every Amazon customer, because you guys paid for all of this,' the grateful billionaire said after landing."

~ Edward Ongeeso, Jordan Pearson

https://www.vice.com/en/article/bvzp8w/jeff-bezos-thanks-workers-who-pee-in-bottles-for-paying-for-his-space-trip

Well, someone has to feed them.

"Sánchez noted that Bezos strongly values efficiency, which appears to truly manifest itself in frightening ways.

'It’s the greatest experience I’ve ever had. I’ve always had a career very separate from my partner. I think now that I can work with my partner and be with him all the time,' Sánchez added. 'We love to be together and we love to work together. He’s helping me with [a] book. We fly together. We work out together. We’re together all the time.'”

https://parade.com/celebrities/jeff-bezos-girlfriend

Anyways, son of a single mom who struggled has his own challenges?

"Housekeeping staff would try to eat in a laundry room, and were prohibited from using a toilet in a nearby security room, forcing them to climb out a window to access a bathroom, according to the complaint."

~ Matt Day

https://fortune.com/2022/11/03/jeff-bezos-sued-ex-housekeeper-excessive-hours-racial-discrimination-by-his-staff/


As a single mom, in certain kind of society, she did her best.

"Jeff Bezos single teen mom brought him to night school"

https://www.cnbc.com/2019/06/14/jeff-bezoss-single-teen-mom-brought-him-to-night-school-with-her.html

What does the internet say of his mom's ancestry? Is it Mexican? Unknown?

"World's richest man: I'd be nothing without my Cuban father"

http://www.miamiherald.com/news/business/technology/article210248884.html

Who wants people to not support you if you're "too different" from them?

Who wants humans to be more dehumanizing to "others" than they needed to be?

This is more recent.

"It’s Not Too Late: On Hélène Cixous’ 'Well-Kept Ruins'"

https://www.clereviewofbooks.com/writing/helene-cixous-well-kept-ruins

Hey, first time seeing her interviewed (for me...for some reasons...)

"Helene Cixous" (for 5 1/2 minutes)

https://youtu.be/ZKUQWv0irVw

Feeeelings...can still happen...

"But why do they still seem to feel they must act like they don't know how tragic the infrahumanisation (thanks for that recent addition to my vocabulary, by the way!) & inequality is gonna look in almost no time at all?!??!!" 

Long, and new...to me...to night.

"Within her preface to Le Rire de la Méduse et autres ironies (2010), a republication of 'Le Rire' and some of her other essays, Cixous transcribes a conversation with her Medusa that conveys this sentiment:

Elle pose sa couronne, s’assied, rose, et puis : où sont les femmes aujourd’hui ? dis-je. – En 2003, je suis née et j’ai vécu en Corée, on arrivait en 1970, dit la couronnée. Tout de suite après, ce sont des latinas qui m’ont appelée, et ces jours-ci je vis en Californie. C’est l’Heure de la Méduse entre les Amériques. Je n’arrête pas de galoper les airs d’Asie. Et en France, c’est comment ? – Je crains qu’il faille que tu reviennes voler devant ma fenêtre, dis-je. Ce temps-ci l’air est plein d’algues, on étouffe et ne rit pas beaucoup.

('Un effet d’épine rose' 33)

She settles her crown, sits, pink, and then: where are the women today? I said. – In 2003, I was born and lived in Korea, we got there in 1970, said the crowned. Right after, the Latinas called me, and these days I live in California. It is the Hour of the Medusa in the Americas. I never stop galloping the airs of Asia. And in France, how is it? – I fear that you need to come back and fly by my window, I say. Right now the air is full of algae, we are stifled and do not laugh very much.

(my translation)

If there is a lack of the 'laughter' once inspired by the Cixousian Medusa, in France and elsewhere, does this suggest a return to the repression of the body that Cixous had worked to rehabilitate through the rewriting of the Medusa? Is the femme fatale in popular culture being reclaimed as an empowering form of female sexuality? A glance at some fairly recent film releases, (the dangerous female is a particularly scopic fetish) in France and the United States seem to confirm the fabrication of female bodies as a locus of danger and desire (Elle, 2016; Teeth, 2007; La Forêt de Quinconces, 2016). Is it still desirable to depict women as devilish, femme fatale endowed with an uncontrollable sexuality that endows women with power over men? Is this a real (feminist) answer to sexual inequality? These are the 'dangerous' questions that we must continue to ask as we reflect on Cixous’s essay and its continuing relevance today."

~ Raquelle K. Bostow

After you have gone through a lot, whether the world ever sees it or not

It can be so pleasant to have a moment to feel that things really can change for the better! 

Ah, there was a laughing sister...and other c'moments

"Margot Frank..."

https://www.timesofisrael.com/margot-frank-comes-out-of-her-sisters-shadow-in-new-photos/

"The Laugh of the Medusa" by Hélène Cixous | Goodreads


Moulin Rouge - "Nature Boy Lyrics" | SongMeanings

Monday, June 19, 2023

Ye olde ecriture feminine 🍑

So far, I have got to page 211 of my online checkout of Violette Leduc's Mad in Pursuit. It sounds like she was a very good cook, but her shenanigans with Jean Genet at dinner parties certainly were rather excessive. She needed better tools! But I suppose it was a different time...🍒

"For Cixous, écriture féminine is not only a possibility for female writers; rather, she believes it can be (and has been) employed by male authors such as James Joyce or Jean Genet."

"Écriture féminine" - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89criture_f%C3%A9minine

Food, water, where would you be without it?!?!?!

"Fate Of Food' Asks: What's For Dinner..."

https://www.npr.org/2019/06/02/729261391/fate-of-food-asks-what-s-for-dinner-in-a-hotter-drier-more-crowded-world


Ah, upward trajectory!!!

"Salinas-based organization helps farmworkers become farmowners"

https://www.ksbw.com/article/salinas-based-organization-helps-farmworkers-become-farm-owners/44237497


Sometimes, happiness is the freedom to hydrate yourself while doing domestic chores ;-)

And maybe music...🎵

Sarah McLachlan - "Sweet Surrender"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2JWJYLNUq4

From "what makes some people act that way" to "remember a-g-u-a..."

"He got his and to Abbot and the GOP. That's all that matters." 

https://twitter.com/MartyTa94849826/status/1670855531290828800

"Greg Abbott Axing Water Breaks Before Texas Heat Wave Sparks Anger: 'Cruel'"

https://www.newsweek.com/greg-abbott-axing-water-breaks-texas-heat-wave-anger-1807538

"Sesame Street: Agua" - YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl3Q2AzQGNQ

Sunday, June 18, 2023

It still seems that a lot of us need to learn more about the good healing tools...

We probably need to learn more about those good healing tools, and how to form good healing habits, probably even more than we need the books or shows or films or anything. Because a lot of us really need to learn how to cultivate for ourselves a way to enjoy much better health the most of all.

How about that nature?

 


One time when I closed my eyes...

This life wanted to think about how it is to feel connected to some who have had their life purposes unfold whilst gathering in the woods...

"The Partisan" by L. Cohen
https://youtu.be/7sXbaCWsl-s

...and also about gold maple leaves.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canadian_Gold_Maple_Leaf

~~~~~~

Plus, a little library love.

💖!!!!💖

Friday, June 16, 2023

Bless Humanity...

"Alzheimer's had turned Kugler into an emotional man, unable to deal with whatever painful memories he held on to. His wife said that when he met with young people, he would often start crying uncontrollably. In 1979, one friend reported that Victor was experiencing time lapses, sometimes thinking he was back in Amsterdam. 'Victor and Lucy Kugler were at our house, when, without warning, he went up the stairs. Lucy said, 'Where are you going, Victor?' To which Victor replied, 'I'm just going upstairs to check that the people are all right '" (page 178).

~ Joop Van Wijk-Voskuijl and Jeroen De Bruyn

"The Last Secret of the Secret Annex"

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62918585-the-last-secret-of-the-secret-annex


Humorous life it is!

Isn't it funny when you find some bits of humor in a book or a show, even if that's not the main point of the work?

Friends don't always have to have the same sense of humor.

It already happened...on page xv.

I unexpectedly started to cry while reading the prologue of a library book:

"The Last Secret of the Secret Annex"

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62918585-the-last-secret-of-the-secret-annex

It says the prologue was just written in March of 2023.

Angel flowers & purple creations

 




Perhaps this is better than saying "Patriarchal Culture still wants you to do that other thing though" ?

"Ableism looks like calling people 'inspiring' for navigating a system that is designed for exclusion, while doing nothing to hold the system accountable."

Twitter user @Carson_Tueller

https://twitter.com/BCEdAccess/status/1490365682785083401

More willing-to-be-caring people are needed.

"A son of California farmworkers introduced legislation this week to ensure that children working in agriculture have the same the same rights and protections as those working in mining and manufacturing. 

The Children’s Act for Responsible Employment and Farm Safety (CARE) Act of 2023, introduced by Rep. Raul Ruiz, would raise from 12 to 14 the minimum age at which children can be farmworkers. In the agricultural sector, children as young as 12 can work in the fields during non-school hours with few restrictions, according to federal and California labor laws. In other industries, the minimum age is 14."

~ Gillian Brassil

Read more at: https://www.sacbee.com/news/politics-government/capitol-alert/article276411491.html#storylink=cpy

It would be good to heal the traumas...

"The way you go along with patriarchal abusive patterns so much still makes me feel sick, and then I sometimes say, well, at least this is not Europe in the early 1940s...that may not sound like a compliment, but you could still feel something besides an insecure need to cling to gross egotism...something bigger...than just yourself, which could still include yourself."

Maybe the time is now, for some?

"When will the descendants of some abusive narcissists start acting like they care more about the planet and its inhabitants than what got role-modeled for them?"

"Not everyone really wants things to change for the better."

"But maybe some of the ones who grew up with only a little bit of exposure to the ways of the abusive, narcissistic patriarchy will find a much better path to follow, anyway?"

Patriarchy is an abusive, narcissistic, parenting model.

All the ones that the patriarchal people were trained to act like they don't care about will know they deserved much better. And even the abusive, narcissistic, patriarchal people will know, too. 

The next generation can be better.

It should not be so easy for them to be dehumanizing to x types of people just to fit in with the abusive patriarchy.

Some were better when they were younger.

But you can't wait forever for them to get better when they already caved in to the customs of the abusive patriarchy and found ways to benefit from aligning themselves with it. 

Not just one, sadly.

They hurt A LOT of women and girls, and other people, too, when they are addicted to treating a few abusive patriarchs with more money like they're more important than anyone else.

Cat honesty is great.

Cats are not perfect, but at least they do not act like immature, untrustworthy adults who seem to have some strange addictions to tribalism and insensitivity.

For whatever reason, hurting others in order to fit in with abusive, patriarchal groups seems to make some people feel better about themselves.

What strange choices. 

When I wonder, "How did they fall into those unwell patterns of behavior?"

I am not sure if it's worth trying to figure it out anymor lol lllpP

Thursday, June 15, 2023

She seems happier...❤️

 


WITH CATS 
😻

And now I recall another wonderful work...

Arvo Pärt ~ "My Heart's in the Highlands..."

https://youtu.be/acnH6M1Ee8k

from a film...

"La Grande Bellezza & the ability to enjoy our lives"

http://www.forastateofhappiness.com/la-grande-bellezza-the-ability-to-enjoy-our-lives/

which came to my attention at a time when it was necessary to explore grief.

Yeah, like, what and why and how come, and stuff?

"...the film’s real purpose is confronting older injustices, chief among them Dolores Huerta’s relative obscurity,' De Loera-Brust wrote. 'In doing so it invites us all to reflect on the politics of memory: What do we remember, what do we forget, and why?'”

~ James T. Keane

"What Dorothy Day had to say about Dolores Huerta"

https://www.americamagazine.org/arts-culture/2023/05/23/dorothy-day-dolores-huerta-245352

Now I feel like learning more about this...

"What Dorothy Day had to say about Dolores Huerta"

https://www.americamagazine.org/arts-culture/2023/05/23/dorothy-day-dolores-huerta-245352


Climate change is in their hearts?

I think a habit which SOME (NOT ALL) of the "wealthy" have developed in this lifetime, of being very cold-hearted towards certain kinds of people (including the very people they've been relying on throughout their lives to actually function in our society) is just so...unsustainable.

How unhealthy it is...even for those who have been treated more favorably by the patriarchal structures in this lifetime.

It's not only sad for the growing numbers of people who are more affected by the upheaval.

It is also sad for the so-called privileged ones, too.

I simply cannot forsee it going on forever.

At least some of them were nicer when they were younger!

Why do certain insecure people get into the habit of being careless and cruel to others just to wield some temporary sense of power?

And then this happened!

The advertisement on my nice coloring app. Accompanied by the poor babysitter's sobbing noises...

So many years until the profits will make her able to buy a better place to live!

Just kidding. Jeez.

Thinking about 🫘🍚🥒🍒

F

https://www.ocregister.com/2023/06/15/rents-soared-151-under-californias-new-law-tenants-are-getting-a-refund/

O

https://www.ocregister.com/2023/06/15/a-mystery-sparks-rina-ayuyangs-graphic-novel-about-californias-filipino-farm-workers/amp/

O

https://civileats.com/2023/06/14/the-struggle-for-food-sovereignty-in-immokalee-florida/

D

prices getting laughed at by the shoppers in the grocery store, again. 😂

Kids, too?

Food prices! Wives! Fields of field workers working the fields!

Worthy topic?

Discussing the kinds of workplace conditions that human beings deserve to enjoy...because humans can be good at doing things like that!

"Earning children"?

"The writer Elena Lappin published an extensive report in May 1999. She had become acquainted with Wilkomirski two years before, when the Jewish Quarterly awarded him its prize for nonfiction. At the time, she was editor of that English magazine. In the course of her research, she identified a number of contradictions in Wilkomirski's story and came to believe that Fragments was fiction. (Lappin 1999)

In addition, she reported that Wilkomirski's uncle, Max Grosjean, said that as children he and his sister Yvonne (Wilkomirski's biological mother) had been Verdingkinder (or "earning children") — in other words, that they had been part of the old Swiss institution of orphaned children working for families, with overtones of child slavery. Eskin's interest in Wilkomirski had its origins in genealogy: his family had ancestors in Riga and, initially, they believed that the author of Fragments could perhaps be a long-lost relative. In the same year (2002) the public prosecutor of the canton of Zurich announced that she found no evidence of criminal fraud. She added that a DNA test she had ordered had confirmed that Wilkomirski and Grosjean were the same person.[18]"

"Fragments: Memories of a Wartime Childhood - Wikipedia"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fragments:_Memories_of_a_Wartime_Childhood

AFTER READING ABOUT 

"Barbro Karlén - Wikipedia"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbro_Karl%C3%A9n

Intriguing POV, perhaps.

Who knows. I have never been on a...project...like that...

"I found it a little sexist..."

https://fandomwire.com/i-found-it-a-little-sexist-olivia-wildes-87m-thriller-with-florence-pugh-has-a-surprising-reaction-from-wb-producer-after-directors-whirlwind-drama-with-marvel-star/

“'That was just a bad PR head wind,' De Luca said. 'I found it a little sexist because if a male director had a romance with someone on his cast? It happens all the time; no one cares.'"

~ Vishal Kawadkar

Some just showed me something funny...

"Man wanted me to flirt back..."

https://www.reddit.com/r/MaliciousCompliance/comments/14a7eyx/man_wanted_me_to_flirt_back_so_i_did/

Sometimes the game ends with some positive news...

"The experiences [that] shaped her as a leader—being a single working mom, caring for the sick parent, dealing with harassing men—are unique to women and common to women...Women no longer have to model themselves after men to be recognized as leaders."

https://twitter.com/MalloryMcMorrow/status/1669336740018913280

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2023/06/gretchen-whitmer-white-house-run

AFTER

"There are massive economic repercussions. Forced moms can't finish school, or can't work as many hours because of family needs (or at all), or can't rise in their chosen careers.  It's billions of dollars, not just for the mothers but for our economy as a whole."

https://twitter.com/StacyStateham/status/1669007085302849536

AFTER

"This estimate assumes we'll be closing the pay gap at the same rate we have been - which seems pretty fucking unlikely now that Roe has been overturned!"

https://www.axios.com/2023/06/08/women-gender-pay-parity

https://twitter.com/JessicaValenti/status/1669005342569639937?t=nm94eM-9FDMOYB8ogg_emg&s=09

People are still figuring things out...

"'I mean most of them are men,' she said. 'They are never going to have to carry a child. They're never going to have to be in the position, they're never gonna be the one that was carrying that baby and had to go through hell.'

Kentucky lawmakers who have supported the bans have called abortion 'a stain on our country' and have said abortion is against their religious beliefs.

Haider said not offering abortion services in several states is putting a significant burden on patients, especially for those who receive those fatal diagnoses."

~ Maberry & Haider (reported by Mary Kekatos)

"Woman says she was forced to travel for an abortion despite her fetus's fatal condition"

https://abcnews.go.com/Health/woman-forced-travel-abortion-despite-fetuss-fatal-condition/story?id=100065877


A friend had an interesting life, as well.

'Barbro Ask-Upmark - Obituary"

https://www.crowemortuary.com/memorials/barbro-ask-upmark/5045172/

"Barbro Karlen"

https://www.reincarnationresearch.com/reincarnation-case-of-anne-frank-barbro-karlen/

And some people who can entertain can also act like they care?

Destiny needed him to do many things...

"Buddy Elias"

https://www.annefrank.ch/en/family/buddy-elias

More care now?

"US Lawmakers Move to Protect Child Farmworkers"

https://www.hrw.org/news/2023/06/12/us-lawmakers-move-protect-child-farmworkers

O life in a body on a planet of lessons

Sometime the smallest disagreements which hurt can uncover the parts that cry out for a deeper healing and better understanding, which is something that can also happen with the evolving ones...